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Wednesday, November 3, 2010

In My Boops

I was reminded (again) today that you never know the road someone has walked if you haven't walked in their "boops". You never can judge someone by their outward appearance. You never can judge someone by their clothing. You never can judge someone by the image they portray. You never can judge someone by looking at them through someone else's eyes. You never should judge someone anyways. It's not nice.
I love that I have been blessed to have a few friends that haven't judged me at all, but just love me as I am, for ME. (Whoever that is.) I love that I am married to someone that loves me BECAUSE I am me, not inspite of or despite the fact that I am me. Many a judgement has been passed upon me by the size I've been, by the clothing I wear, by the circumstances surrounding me, by the things they know, not the things they don't know. I figure that's just a way to give someone else a break, because if "they" are busy judging me and talking about me, then someone else is resting for a few. All the more power to them. I am confident enough with who I am that I don't really care what they say or think, without first having walked a mile in my boops. those few that have loved me through it all *just* because I am me....I thank you. My vow to you is that I will not judge you, either, because, after all, I haven't walked a mile in YOUR boops, either.
I have no idea where I got that photo up there from. Please forgive me.


  1. Amen girl... I've been judged my whole life. I'm at a point now where I am so happy to be me and have a few friends who love me for who I am and not what I look like, what I do or don't do, how much money I do or don't have, what I have or don't have or how pretty I'm not or am. I'm happy to be me. I'm happy to be in a good place in my marriage. I'm happy to be alive. And overall, I'm happy.
    So, I say, to hell with the judges. Judge not lest ye be judged. It's not my place to judge others. A far higher power than I has that responsbility and He knows, I don't want it.

    I love you Abby... always have, alway will. I'm so happy for you that YOU are happy!

  2. Spanks, Lis. You're quite the keeper. I love you right back. :)